If you've ever wanted to be a teacher or in the corporate world we think of training and development, this is your chance. Getting people on board with your journey to wellness means they first have to understand the challenge. They have to understand not only the diagnosis, but the specifics of you particular diagnosis. When others are rooted with information they can more readily support you and your decisions. Those you want to be part of your inner circle during the treatment phase can either meet with you individually or you can hold a scaled down town hall meeting for those in your support network. There will be other opportunities for those who don't need the specifics to be sideline cheerleaders during your journey.

Clarity is important when making decisions. By the time you begin meeting with people or enlisting your care network most likely you've already made treatment decisions. The opportunity to share you health plan is the lead your care team needs to support you through this process. When you are clear on not only the treatment, but why you and your doctor chose this treatment you set aside fear and anxiety in those around you allowing them to focus on supporting you in your decisions.

It's important to remember that your health is a not a democratic republic. You are in control of your health along with your formal healthcare team. Your goal is not to receive healthcare by consensus, it's confusing, overwhelming and frankly is not in your best interest. You may want to give those in your care circle a voice, but don't give them a vote when it comes to decision making. You can always go the old fashioned route and create a suggestion box if you really want their input, but remember they are suggestions not dictates.

Going through treatment is taxing. As the CEO of your health you should feel comfortable sharing your wishes with your care team. If pain is the key concern, then that should be their concern. If quality of life is paramount, then all decisions and actions should support that goal. The treatments and the outcomes are all based on what you believe will be in you and your families best interest. Honest is the key to bringing this to fruition. You will need to do some soul searching and know how you want to live your life. It's fine to change your mind as you move through the process, but let your voice been heard by the medical community and the care team.

Keeping in mind that it's your body, your health and your life should be the focus of all decisions. Inviting your family, friends and colleagues to support you in this process can be helpful and an enriching experience for all. You're the lead on the rowing team. You call out when it's time to row, and make sure that everyone is going in the same direction at the same time. Feeling comfortable with the decisions you make will influence how supportive your care team is on a regular basis. They are there to support your decisions, so feeling grounded in your own wellness process is critical to getting everyone on board following your diagnosis.